Radical Listening: A Key to Therapeutic Success

 

The space between musical notes is called an interval, I just learned. French composer Claude Debussy described music as “the space between the notes.” Without the space between, it would just be a cacophony of noise. The space allows for the notes to resonate and reverberate and mature into their fullness of expression. It gives room for relativity and reflection and response. This analogy could be applied to many things in life to improve their experience and outcome: dialogue, relationships, life, and psychotherapy.

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